Hey GIMA,

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I am not letting my guard down, and I don't have any expectations.


Having a guard may be good for now, but ultimately you don't want to have any 'guard' you want strong boundaries.

Having a 'guard' up was one of my problems as I look back, rather than having strong character boundaries. There's a difference there.

Wishing you luck, you're doing well my friend, even if it doesn't seem like it at times..

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."