You say "Last year, she suddenly hated it". Did she communicate this to you at all over the past year? If so, then I kinda have a problem with you "sometimes" fooling with her on purpose and lying about it ("it's involuntary!"). I wouldn't call it sexual abuse, but it does feel like you were violating a poorly-communicated boundary.
No, no, no.When it quickly sunk in that she rejected it (and wasn't just having a bad week or two),I stopped. I can't speak to what may have - and - did happen asleep at, say 4:am, though.
Originally Posted By: TrentC
Of course, if she didn't say anything at all to you about it, then I'm not sure what you could have done differently. I haven't kept up with your sitch, but just reading the last few pages shows me that she has some horrible issues that she is not dealing with at all.
Definitely. Sad, but true.
Thank you.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
