I'd be willing to bet he wouldn't be in agreement.
The question is this:
BBJ,are you M'd or single?
Answer - M'd. Until there is a final D decree you are M'd.
Do M'd people date?
Answer - No.
Although I understand the motivation, I don't agree with dating until a D is final. Everyone has to make their own decisions of course.
Yes, BBJ was left a long time ago and has had to live as a single person but she's not really single. There is too much risk of possibly hurting someone else during the fallout of your D. Even though you aren't looking for a R, you and anyone you date could get hurt.
Just something to think about.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!