I'd be willing to bet he wouldn't be in agreement.

The question is this:

BBJ,are you M'd or single?

Answer - M'd. Until there is a final D decree you are M'd.

Do M'd people date?

Answer - No.

Although I understand the motivation, I don't agree with dating until a D is final. Everyone has to make their own decisions of course.

Yes, BBJ was left a long time ago and has had to live as a single person but she's not really single. There is too much risk of possibly hurting someone else during the fallout of your D. Even though you aren't looking for a R, you and anyone you date could get hurt.

Just something to think about.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!