Well, the latest I have is that W is going to attend C for the girls this next session. The C wants to talk to W about her interactions with the kids. D11 has really been verbally going after D7 for every little thing which is something that the C is working on D11 with. W kept trying to convince me last night that our separated situation had nothing to do with D11's actions and anger toward everyone. Funny thing is, I didn't say anything about it. Must be her guilt talking trying to convince herself that this has no affect on the kids.
Today is grandparents day at the school. W's mom was supposed to eat lunch with D7 today. They registered and built up D7's hopes. Last night W tells me to let D7 know that her grandma for the 3rd time in a row is canceling yet again on D7. D7 cried and said she always does this. The sad thing is that she does. She always makes sure she is there for anything regarding D11 or her other grandchild, but D7 always gets slighted. I told W that her mom needs to be the one and call D7 to tell her, but her mom wouldn't do it. Her mom apparently has a job interview this morning which would normally be fine except that she always backs out on D7 for most occasions. So it really didn't matter to D7.
My BIL may be coming in on Sunday now instead of Saturday. So I am waiting to hear on that.
Busy day at work today.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
