My WAW and I have been separated for approx 2 mos. B4 that we were living together but in separate rooms for a few weeks and B4 that sharing the same bed but she was living on edge of the bed with her back to me every night, no physical contact for mos. She has been very angry to the point we couldnt talk to each other w/out arguing. We havent talked for approx. 3 weeks. All of a sudden after several mos of angry confrontations she texted me to see if I wanted her to drop off some food at the house that she made. I said thank you but I was all set. She ended up contacting my son and brought it over anyway but I didnt see her. Now we've e-mailed each other for a legitimate reason but we ended up saying we forgive each other for all we've done in the past. Then I ran into her at the grocery store later in the night as I was walking out and she gave me the tightest strongest hug and kiss on the cheek. She said I looked good and it was good to see me. She says she still wants a divorce. Then I got a text later in the evening from her saying it was good to see me and that I looked good and shes glad we've forgiven each other and she hopes to talk to me soon. I have been working on improving myself and basically ignoring her for months. Is this part of the process for her? For months it was anger and bile and now its niceness but still brings up divorce. Im gonna stay the course and not contact her and see what happens. We've been married just shy of 20 years and have had 4 years of issues including a short affair by me 4 yrs ago and at the very least an EA by her for the last 6 mos
Sounds to me like her OM dumped her, and she's trying to get the HlpMePlz "plate" spinning on her stick again.
Puppy
yep, what else would have caused the sudden change of heart?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Thanks PDT, thats what Im thinking. Im planning on just continuing life as Ive been doing. Getting myself better and acting as if Ive move on. I was just curious if this is normal for them to go from angry and hate filled to nice. Im very leery and keeping my distance
