I'm a bit better. I've gone on with my life and now he is as well. He didn't invite our daughter (6) to his wedding that was a week ago and even though he calls her nightly, he HASN'T MENTIONED THAT HE GOT MARRIED!! my therapist advised me not to be the one to tell her - he needs to tell her himself. his m.o. is to do things and not inform people (like when he and his new wife were living together for over 2 months -- he didn't tell me and my daughter ended up telling me because she was confused about the situation (she goes there 2 times a month). I had to drag it out of him so SOMEONE could explain it to our daughter. but my therapist told me to back off on this one - it's HIS responsibility to tell our daughter. With my marriage I was the exact opposite. dughter knew well in advance, I told ex h as well. Isn't that what you are supposed to do??? god, I hate co-parenting with him.
