Tonight I'm told by STBXW (or rather, she tells mediator), that they are all disgusted that I showed up unannounced and uninvited and were appalled. My family!
I'm not buying this. And you shouldn't either. Have any of your steps said anything to indicate this to you? Have a discussion with them about this. If they are uncomfortable, be respectful of their wishes. If they truly have a problem with you, I don't think there would be any doubt in your mind. Ask them.
I'm not buying it either. Typical wayward "script" for them to claim what others are saying about you.
