Not much to talk about lately. Keeping busy with the baby and kids. Supposed to take my son to get his drivers license today but he has one marginal grade....so its put off for a few weeks.
Yesterday my d18 was on her FB and added married gf as a friend. I was taking a nap with baby and she came running in. She had a chat with mgf on IM:
MGF: Hi. I am glad you added me. I hope we can be friends for baby's sake. I know your mom hates me because I am now with your stepdad. D18: My mom doesn't hate you. She has no reason to hate you. She feels sorry for you. There is alot you don't know. MGF: Well, exh told me about his past and I really believe that people change when they are with the right person. He is such a different man when he is with me. I hope your mom can see that and be happy for him. D18: Um, ok. She is happy and moved on. She doesn't like to see someone get used like she did. MGF: Oh thank you. I have been used in the past and its no fun. but I can assure you exh is not like that. D18: Here is my moms number. You should call her and chat. I think there are alot of things you can relate to. MGF: Oh ok. I would love to clear the air with her. I have seen pictures of baby and can't wait to meet her. I want your mom to feel comfortable with me because I will be in babys life. D18: Yeah, ok....
Delusional? She has no idea what he is capeable of. He and everyone is right...she is loony!
I really doubt that mgf will call me. I imagine exh will flip out and tell her not to. That was his worst nightmare when OW and I chatted and compared lies. Although it would be nice to tell and show her texts about what he has been up to. I told d18 she probably shouldn't have added and chatted with her, but she said she didn't think she would really accept. Told d18 not to chat with her anymore.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!