Done, Gardener. Other than one point which I expressed in my post, I feel sorry that your STBXW is hell-bent on destroying your entire family, not just your M.

As for me, not a lot to report. Still keeping on day-by-day; she did say "I love you" last night in response to me going out grocery shopping. I didn't say anything about it, but it definitely went on the mental pile of positive steps.

I'm curious to see if she asks to return to the master bedroom this weekend, as she implied she might earlier. Trying not to be hopeful, but definitely curious.

I may take a break from the site for a few days; I tend to read here at work a lot, but I have a couple of projects I need to knuckle down and get to work on.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."