She says because I talk snotty and disdainful towards her. I do not. That's what she hears or wants to hear to convince herself that she's divorcing a pr!ck, and not the decent, loving (though imperfect) man she's loved for 15-16 years.
Her IC has corrupted her. Her IC has been trying to get her to walk out and "self-actualize" for 4 years since I quit drinking. Y'see, since I quit through Rational Recovery and counseling (with immediate and lasting success) rather than AA, well, then I'm "just an in-denial, diseased, insane dry drunk." STBXW is just editing memories, re-writing history and demonizing me to justify her actions, her "bailing" on us, which goes against her values, her core.
