Classic re-write of history to suit her needs/WANTS!
Yep...that's it. I understand that you feel the way you do, but remember, you have no control over her thoughts, feelings, and actions...so don't waste anymore emotional energy even bothering with it.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.