Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[CountingCrows]

Thank you all for opening my eyes wider and slapping me in the face with the painful truth. I have definitely lost myself in the process, and my self-respect is at 0 at this point. It is time I get it back. I'm making arrangements to discuss (with s7 out of the house) her cutting off contact with OM one last time. In the meantime, I'm also proceeding with cutting her off completely from any financial support. I really didn't want it to go down this way. I know it's going to get REALLY UGLY, but after doing some more thinking last night, I went ahead and looked over her "secret phone" records one more time, and she is texting/talking to him from the first thing in the morning to the last thing at night. Friends or not, if the person she thinks of first thing when she wakes up and right before bed isn't me, then she is having at the very least an EA. I'm putting my foot down. Knowing her, she will EXPLODE, try to flip it on me, and disappear from my life as much as she can with us still having a s. I'm going to re-arrange my morning schedule so I can see s7 off on the bus, then work through lunch. I've already got the afternoon's covered for him.

Looking at the phone records, I'm not even sure if she really even worked her first day at the new job, since she was texting/calling her roommate, who works at the same location. Obviously has no problems lying to me...why would it be any different with her C.

Truth hurts, BAD...but I respect myself more than this.