Spouse Suffering From Depression

[awest1217]

Believe me, I have gotten many, many brush off texts so I understand the disappointment. Even last night H said how he was so tired and needed to go to bed early, but I am sure he stayed up for his usualy 11 pm phone call from OW and the past week staying up late so of course he is tired. The same with your H. I am sure he is tired, but that is because he goes out to drink too much and too late. He should muster up enough strength to get dinner with his family.

Also don't worry about sending the extra text. Sometimes even with LRT, you have to test the waters to see if you can move from that spot. H did open it up by talking about going out of town, and even comign yesterday so asking to do dinner since he really didn't spend much time with you is not a bad thing. Just make sure you don't do it all the time because at some point H needs to take responsibility for his part of the relationship.

Hope you have a good day today!