here's what I'm struggling with now. What is the balance between "doing what works" and working on detachment?
right now, I don't know if anything is really working. It appears that she is running farther and faster away. I know I'm not supposed to be worried about W at all, but how do I relate that to what works.
She doesn't appear happy right now, and a little pissy about the room change. Late last evening she came in Master Bedroom and asked where my one pack of cigarettes was( I don't smoke, I bought one back the day after the bomb. The last time I smoked was 16 years ago, the last time we went through this). I told her where they were in my car, and that I would prefer the kids not see her smoke.
At 5am, she came back into master bedroom/bath and removed most of her bathroom stuff. We didn't exchange a word.
These interactions are very tense, and don't feel like good DB'ing to me. I don't know.
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