Great post Serenity. It sounded like a veteran to me.
I always respected her privacy, but when 3 txts in a row come in at 4am, I was just curious who was sending them. The BIG BOMB hit when I read them and realized that she had slept with OM, the musician. According to her, it was only once, and she regretted her very bad decision immediately/immensely.
CC. She only owned up to it after she was caught. Then went out and got a secret cell phone. You give her full trust and she still feels a need to be secretive. How is that working for you?
And if she lies to you, she can lie to her counselor.