Not sure what to do

[Lost Rabbit]

You really are in a pickle at the moment (()) nearly said a bit of a stew lol. Best thing is not to make any decisions for a couple of days, at the moment youre angry and raw and its screaming it out from your post! Your mum and dad arnt going to want to know sunday lunch arrangements probably till friday.
DONT go setting ultimatums about only going if shes going and if shes going to work at things, Im telling you straight she isnt going to want to at the moment.

Stu now Im going to be a tad blunt, why should she ask you to look after yourself before you do? I can say that as my H used to snore and he has a heart condition but still doesnt take great care of himself. Its you that needs to put your care high on the list, if not for you then your son! Also if my S(21) doesnt look after himself he'd be getting a loving ear wiggin from his mum, so Im ear wiggin you by proxy. Its good to hear you have got the cpap machine, have they found any concrete reason for the snoring yet! Why not you get a few weeks better sleep with the cpap machine so that you can think straight and feel better, then you might be in the right frame of mind to sort the smoking out too.

Its good to hear that both of you have a united front on S's behalf, so many of the stories on here are so sad mostly because of the neglect the children receive from the WAS. Dont be offended that he wanted mum to pick him up, he's only six and they can be quite clingy at that stage, what age do they start school over in Aus! Ours go to school at about 4-5.

Despite what she says and its sounds like she has done some pretty awful decisions without consulting you, was the abortion since you broke up? Even though that sounds awful she probably has done it out of panic and the fact she is scared stiff of where her life is going, but cant really guess until you give more info!

Chin up!

Rabbit