Aug, Yes!!! Vent here all day long! This is a good place to be for getting it all out. I also read that book. I actually started a thread in MLC about starting new traditions for the holidays. Whenever my Husband would come to visit I made sure the house was spotless, and homey. Burning his favorite candles and the cupboards stocked with his favorite foods. I wanted to leave him with good memories. There is another book out there also, called Solo Partner which can also be very helpful. Oh and one more called How can I forgive you. This is a wonderful tool to help get over the affair and find forgivness again.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
