I located a C that sounds good. She is a professor at the Uni here and from her articles it sounds like she is close to S.Glass' and Michelles' way of handling things. She has studied in the States and she had no problem with me asking at least 20 questions about her experience/beliefs/way of dealing with infidelity, marital crisis etc.
We need guidance, I need someone to help ME personally get over what has happened. I am going to tell H soon and hopefully he will agree. I am worried that he is dicouraged by the so far experience we had with Cs so far but granted that he was still in the A then, maybe things will go better now.
If he refuses, then I will ask for some kind of action plan that he proposes to tackle this situation.
For the record, he didnt call me but once yesterday, since he is busy with work. I sent a text to remind him to go to the police station for a ticket he got while driving my little car and I am accused for the violation and he replied he will do that today or tomorrow. No further questions, messages etc K
