Not sure what to do

[stu321]

She said that I don't look after myself. She mentioned the sleep apnea and smoking. If she would of asked, I could of told her that I was picking up the cpap machine on Tuesday. In regards to smoking, I know it's bad, but I'll quit when I'm ready, not cause someone else wants me to quit. I quit the first time like that. Not cause if her nagging, but I wanted to quit. She has to accept that.

I really don't know what to do. I'll only go for lunch if she is willing to try to work on things, otherwise I don't see the point. I'm not getting my hopes up, cause I can't handle being hurt again. She said she wanted me to open up to her when she spoke with my parents.