She's rewriting history to suit her purposes. I highly doubt that her C said what she claims, though it may be what she heard.
I've been told many of the things the IC has said these 4 years. I even spoke to her once on the phone and when she realized who I was her demeanor changed immediately. Unlike you, I don't doubt it for a minute.
Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome
She's trying to justify herself, and she is trying to influence as many opinions as possible to support her point of view. Maintain your honor, over time she will find that her "allies" fall away. The truth usually wins out. People that don't want to see it usually don't matter.
Yep. She bailed, she WAWed without ever telling me there was a problem at all. She has a life-long pattern of cutting people off, shutting them out and running away permanently when she reaches her level of pain (Father& Mother 30 years, 2 sisters 20+ years, Her first ex, my mother, a good friend of hers. now me).
Regarding bailing without ever telling me she was unhappy at all, her daughter recently emailed me saying "I do know that she clearly and regularly communicated unhappiness and concern over your relationship over an extended period of time." My immediate reaction? "Not to me she didn't!"
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"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
