Better this week. We have our Marital Settlement agreement agreed upon - we just need to have it finalized by the lawyers. I got H to agree not to actually file for legal sep! And, to agree to five months of MC and not file for D for one year. Yeah!
I've been giving him lots more space - not calling, not pursuing, not pressuring - this too may be why things are calmer. Still some anger, but not nearly as bad as before. I've been working on staying calm and not letting him get to me when he's critical.
How are you DBD? I'll check up on your sitch now...
