She says because I talk snotty and disdainful towards her. I do not. That's what she hears or wants to hear to convince herself that she's divorcing a pr!ck, and not the decent, loving (though imperfect) man she's loved for 15-16 years.
Her IC has corrupted her. Her IC has been trying to get her to walk out and "self-actualize" for 4 years since I quit drinking. Y'see, since I quit through Rational Recovery and counseling (with immediate and lasting success) rather than AA, well, then I'm "just an in-denial, diseased, insane dry drunk." STBXW is just editing memories, re-writing history and demonizing me to justify her actions, her "bailing" on us, which goes against her values, her core.
That's my theory and I'm stickin' to it.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
