Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
Oh, SC. When it rains it pours, doesn't it? I feel the same way thinking about my stbx building 'our' dream home on the farm and living there with our kids half the time...

This is rough. Not sure if it varies from state to state but here, debt incurred before the d is filed is considered joint debt. Maybe date of separation counts, do you have a way to verify the date of separation??


I am trying not to dwell on the what ifs... it's not productive for me at all... its just sad. The kicker is ... I run the Harbor daily... right around all the boats.... it's so pretty..now that willl be ruined for awhile

Soon, it won't affect me and I look forward till that time, so until it doesn't ... I just will run elsewhere..... but it's right in the downtown area of our little harbor town.... Oh well....


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too