I never read anywhere in your sitch about spousal abuse...
I have never read anything that gives me the feeling you are anywhere near that kind of person...
Is she scared you will call her on her BS?
Scared that if you are alone, she will have to admit (even if just to herself) she still has feelings for you?
Scared you will see through the alien?
Scared to look at you and see what a royal FU she has made?
Scared that she knows she FU and can't quite figure out how to repair the damage so the easiest thing to do is lash out at the one closest to her?
Scared she made horrible choices yet can't admit it to herself yet?
If her fog is as thick as I see it to be, you can question her a couple of days from now and she will deny this conversation ever happened and then look at you like you have 72 heads for pulling this crap out of your butt. (That is how my H looks at me lol)
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~