I'm sorry O'dog...I know it hurts. This is something that we're all gonna experience sooner or later...so maybe at that time, you can give us advice!
I thought your response was great. Leave it be.
You're right on this too...they are a lot further along because they checked out of the marriage long ago...while we continued to do everything within our power to save it and keep our families together.
You are a good man.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.