Thanks for filling in some blanks about the OW and her sitch. Interesting. I agree that it does not sound like a "love match" over there. Perhaps as I thought some guilt over promises broken.
About the continuance...I will preface this by admitting i have NO personal experience in such matters, unlike several previous posters.
Pam...you are living this...but it's not quite the same is it? If there was ONE THING you could do that would turn David right around...wouldn't you LEAP at the chance???
Opt has asked and asked her H to get rid of OW, but he has not.
Opt, I get a little nervous when I think of you dropping the complaint while OW is still in this picture. I'm sorry, but I do.
Your H's stated reasons for keeping her around just ring false to me. What if you said to him: "I'm not dismissing the suit, just delaying it. I want to prove to myself that I can work on our M with a D hanging over it"
Ridiculous sounding isn't it?
Take everyone's advice and do what YOU feel is the best for YOU right now, Opt. JMHO
