Show him that you are fearless. You've been folding after every thing that he's done to you. I think that would be a good time for you to take a stand.
Keep it strictly for the kids and family. You are there to see them. Not him. Hang out with his relatives but most importantly, do not talk about the R to them. Just try and have as good a time as you possibly can.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.