You "need" the woman who is having -- AT BEST -- an inappropriate relationship with your husband, and you think "it would be good" for your kids to spend more time with the woman who is likely contributing to the breakup of your family?????
I'm speechless.
NO. I need the support, I understand what you are saying. I am fine with dropping her. I NEVER said my kids needed to be around HER. They ADORE their cousins. They have lost their father and may lose their dog. Now I am taking their cousins away too. It is harsh.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month