Hi twin... that's quite a situation over there. I don't think I'm at my best to give any insight, or advice, or ideas... after all if they were any good they would be working for me, right? Sorry maybe I shouldn't be back yet... I stayed away cuzz the way I was feeling I was probably going to get everyone as gloomy as I was instead of bringing up any good suggestions. Well, let me just stay here. No insight, just sending you a hug and hoping that things become clear very soon. nightshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "