In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

I know you told me to take a break but I need some advice. H inititated a discussion tonight. He said he changed his phone carrier totally. He is completely emotionly detached. He said that he needs to find someone who will accept him for his faults and is easy to talk to.

A: "Gee, I'm really sorry you feel that way. Maybe you're right. Look, I hate to cut you off, but I was just leaving. We'll catch up later, okay?"

END OF DISCUSSION.

NONE of the rest of that should have ever even happened.

TAKE A BREAK, PiGA. And for goshsakes, avoid your husband, and avoid your sister, and get legal counsel immediately.

Puppy

I cannot afford legal council. I have no money. I cannot afford to live without the money he is paying right now. I have too much going out right now.

After taxes are done I can pay down some of the car and trade in to get a smaller car with a lower payment and less gas money. I have to move in the next year to a different countys so my daughter can go to school. As it stands now, all I can afford are the car payment, the debt consolidation loan I have out, and the mortgage on the house. We have always had separate bank accounts. He pays the house bills, car insurance, groceries, and cell phone bill. I pay the mortgage, my loan, my car note, and the health insurance. I have tried to think of ways to get more money in my pocket, but I come up empty.

It will kill my kids to be away from their cousins. I am so sad about that.