I'm beginning to see that his regrets are just manipulation, they are and were never sincere.
One thing that I did not mention that I found extremely profound was that right after the court proceedings me and my dad left and passed a church that had a saying on its sign in bold letters, "SATAN DOES NOT HAVE A PRAYER".
My dad and I were both emotionally exhausted from this experience and felt that my mother and god were trying to tell us something here. It brought a degree of comfort to both of us because we really see evil in ex's eyes and behaviors.
Last edited by TRUSTING; 11/12/0901:33 AM.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11