Don't react to him. He's trying to push your buttons.
Puppy should charge money. Do what the dogs says.
I took breaks from this site because it would make me go deeper into a hole. The best thing for me at times were to just get out for awhile with some friends to try and decompress. It is emotionally, mentally and physically draining. I was a complete mess. My W said similar things. She said afterwards to me (just a few days ago) that she really thought it was over and that she had given up until something (a combination of things) turned her around and she came back to me. Obviously we still have a ton of work to do and it might not work out, but we are both trying now and I'm just happy to have the chance. I feel like a changed person because of it and unfortunately it took something that drastic to bring it on. You need to change for you and be resigned that it might take a long long time for him to see it.
Basically, I'm just saying to not lose hope. I'm impatient too but it could take a long time. Remember, try your best not to let what he says get to you (I know it's hard). He has too much control over you right now.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009
