We DB to bust the divorce. Not to have them back. But to have the choice to determine if we want to start a new relationship with them.
To take back would be to forget what we just went through.
Do you want to repeat this again? Or 6 months from now you go. I can no longer take this? And you walk!
Look at what your setting up! Nothing learned. She controls you, completely. She is only a woman. And if you truly wish to love her and be with her in the future.
Think.
Is this the woman you fell in love with? Is this the woman you married? Is this the woman you want to learn and share life with?
She is a shadow of herself. A 17 year old in a woman's body , mind and spirit.
100% selfish
There is no true sharing here. The only thing to learn is how much pain and suffering you both can take.
Back away.
Love your wife from a distance. Let her fall down completely. She needs to get herself through this crisis in her soul.
It may seem like the hard path to follow. But in the long run it is not. You heal. You become strong. You decide your life.
Let her do the same. She is just a few months behind you. But its her choice to sink or swim.
If she sinks, let her go. If she swims, let her go.
I know its hard. I know it hurts.
Well I know one cutterbug who needs a hug. That really hurt to write.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
