I think you're right. I've given him what he wants for almost a complete year now, right? Space (emotional), no pressure, etc... How about what I need?
I haven't had any "words" to share with anyone here for almost a month. I've been following along w/you daily, reading, though.
I relate to a lot of your feelings, and hesitations...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.