Ya, well I portrayed that sat. night. So much that I got hit on a few times right in front of H. I think that's why he left so early. There was always some men standing around me. I do admit I looked hot that night...hehe...I had a new outfit on, put my extensions in, and it was working for me. So he got jealous and sure enough, I think he got pissed off and that's why he left early. Gotta keep that going.

As for the SIL. I may be in trouble. She is one of my best friends. I talk to her about everything. Since this happened we have had one serious "R" talk since I've been limiting our chats being that she is HIS sister. But today we went for lunch and it came up at the end of our lunch. I just told her how confused I am, and how confusing he is and she agreed. And said she doesn't get it. I refrained from talking to her like I normally would, but may have let a bit too much slip out. She loves her brother to death and of course he comes first over me. Now I'm a little worried she may say something. Well no more. You're right, I have to portray the new me to her as well.

So I get home from my spa party and open the garage and its spic and span. He came back, after I told him not to, and cleaned the garage and the backyard! He didn't tell me he was coming back, and must have gotten his friend to come to, cause they hauled some stuff out. Well, glad I wasn't here. He was expecting me to be here painting. But no, I have a life...hehe...I don't know what to do. Do I call him and thank him for what he did?


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14