Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[Serenity13]

Although I could be being over-trusting or just completely naive, but I truly believe that what they have isn't the same as a EA.

I have been here long enough to know that this is going to bring the veterans out swinging, so be prepared.

Can I honestly say I feel comfortable with her still having ANY type of R with him, after what happened...not really. Could I get past it without her cutting him off completely? Probably if she showed me the dedication to our R and I completely believed that she could keep the boundaries of friendship.

The boundary has already been stomped all over.

I could just be the world's most gullible cuckold.

I hate to say it but I agree with this statement 100%.

If you have been lurking here then you know all cheaters lie period.

Not to be mean - Your W cheated on you and whether you admit it or not, you are making excuses for it...

You are ok with her being friends with the guy she banged behind your back...

It has nothing to do with her leaving or falling in love...

This is about you and what you want out of the relationship/how you recover/how you move on...

I am completely at a loss for words reading your latest post and that isn't something that is normal for me, so I am going to leave this alone and refer you to some of the ones who have been here much longer then me.