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Signing papers...is just the legal, make the lawyers happy in my book. Brother, when I was done with her in...June 06? I was as far as I was concerned divorced.


I was done as well, yet the day I finally was declared divorced I balled like a baby. It's not just a piece of paper dude, it's a significant document, the same as your marriage certificate.

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Seriously, did you mean to come off like a dickhead there?


Sort of, more than that I meant to make a statement and maybe get an answer......

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Maybe I deserve that maybe I don't. I have done the time in my own head and kicked my own ass enough for the first marriage, but there was more than enough bad crap in it to cover all parties AND have enough left over for a picnic basket of crap sandwiches.


You do... my question is this, did you express your remorse to your 1st wife Jack? I am asking this in all seriousness. If you did, what did you say to her? If you didnt, what would you say if given the chance?

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What do you call an LBS who won't listen, learn or improve themself?


Lost phil.....Jazz Guitar.... .etc......


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09