Another thought here, and please understand that today of all days, I am dealing with my own demons.
David kept saying he was trying to work on things but the whole time I perceived it as he still had a foot and a leg and whatever out the door!
I am not saying in your situation that dropping the proceedings is what you need to do, but maybe he doesn't feel you are 100% committed to saving the R as long as the D is hanging out there, and you on the other hand can't feel he is 100% committed to saving the R as long as he is keeping OW at his office. On the other hand someone has to make the first move to recommit 100% don't they?
I know I am pretty fuzzy and emotional today ok. So that may not make any sense at all.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
