H just forwarded an email. One of our kids emailed him begging him to come home. Said if he loved them he wouldn't have left. He wrote her back telling her to tell me what she said and have me tell her he didn't leave because he doesn't love them.
No freaking way do you do that. He gets to face the consequences of his decision like a big boy.
Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
I'm ignoring him, but should I talk to her?
Tell your kids that it was their father's choice to leave, not yours.
Reassure them that you love them, and that if he wants to come back you're willing to discuss it with him.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
