She really likes it when I am smilling an nice to her. The problem I have with it is that reminds me of the good times and makes me feel like there is some hope to reconcilliation and it makes me want to ask if she has changed her mind.
If there's one thing I've learned -- and it came the hard way -- it is to not ask her if she's changed her mind.
If she wants to get out, make her do the work. If you want her back, make her come to you.
It's easier said than done.
Thankyou this is completely true. Hard but the right way to go about it.