The first thought that comes to mind is C for your kid/kids to help them cope with the situation.

I would ask her about it, but if she doesn't want to talk about it right now, allow that. Let her know you are there for her if she wants to talk about anything at all and just love on her.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...