W just told me she wants out

[TrentC]

Is it normal to feel the need to hurry and find another partner?

Everyone's situation and feelings are different. Certainly there is nothing stopping you from doing that, if that's what you want. To me, it'd kinda be at odds with stopping your divorce...

This should not be confused with socializing with members of the opposite sex. That is healthy and normal; and a good idea, as wayward spouses might think twice about leaving when they see their LBS having fun with members of the opposite sex.