She wants it for her knowledge (her and I are friends IRL), I think she may be gone from work for the day, and her computer at home is fried. She is not ready to take any legal action - she wants her marriage saved, if it can be.

She is having a hard time with the boundaries - which is understandable - because what if she sets them... and his choice IT to leave. That is a whole other set of hurt! But it does need to be done to start working on the marriage.


Me - 33
Him - 37
2 Children (D-8, S-5)
Married 04/28/01
He Left 12/03/05
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