Ok, thanks guys. The leaf analogy is pretty darn accurate right now. I am going to finish DR tonight and start DB then re-read them if I need to. In the mean time I am going to just focus on me and the kids but continue to 180 the way I was interacting with him. I think I am going to go back to my yoga class and start my exercise routine again.

I will be back later. I might take the full 5 days off, or at least a little time off.

Thank you.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month