he's trying to help me too. we're focusing on me. i'd be going back on my word on the financial bit. she just doesn't have any patience to understand the consequences, financially anyway. today is a holiday, i called the bank to cancel the overdraft protection, i'll do that tomorrow.
i really don't want her to go after spousal support. the c/s is high enough. phone bill if it doesn't cost anything, sure i'll switch it. my attitude if it costs money i'm not doing it. i am flat flipping broke, she left me $35 and i've slept everywhere but in jail, i don't have my clothes and i keep figuring something out.
i'm about ready to go off like a rocket on the abuse from her to her, but instead i'm venting here and turning the other cheek to her.