I don't know how your D was filed for but a thought on his saying it is your decision.
I have also told David this when the decision to go on to court or postpone has came up.
I feel we didn't discuss this and it is HIS divorce not mine so it isn't my decision to make. He chose this route without discussing it with me so it is his route to continue deciding what he wants to do.
Maybe just a thought on why he isn't trying to stop you.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
