According to her words we are seperated and she is going to do whatever she wants. She is already planning to go out this weekend with her guy "friend" who is coming in from out of town.
Like I told you earlier, it's time to throw over the moneychangers' tables. She is basically PROACTIVELY telling you she's going to cheat on you this weekend.
So what is she going to come home to, an understanding welcoming committee?
If this were me, she would come home to a house with the locks changed, and all of her belongings in big plastic garbage bags, out on the porch.