Update

[mscanlon]

She is doing all that now. I think the program she was talking about was a GPS enabled thing where she can see where he is at any given time. If he says he is going to the gym - and this online GPS tracker which tracks using your GPS enabled cell phone - says he is NOT at the gym... she would know.

We have looked into these at work to use on our techs - the phones have to be the right kind of phone and then you would have to get into his phone (which he hides from you now and never parts with) to turn on the GPS to that it could be recognized.

But again - all leads back to it being more info that you may not want to see, and you still need to make a decision about how much more you are willing to put up with.