What? What r u talking about? Go where? Potty? To dinner? What? You DONT have to do anything! That is what we ALL have been saying. STOP letting her CONTROL you.
Show her a NEW, Confident Kevin that is tired of APOLOGIZING for the PAST and wants to be happy and MOVE ON. Tell her that you agree that it's over and start making custody arrangements. Show her that you are tired of her crap and are taking BACK THE CONTROL. Do it ALL while being RESPECTFUL just matter of fact PERIOD.
If it's OVER it's OVER. No amount of convincing or being Mr. Nice guy is going to get her back. Getting a back bone and showing her a new, confident YOU that is NOT going to be manipulated by her is the ONLY CHANCE YOU HAVE PERIOD!!! ugh!!!