Opt, How about waiting six months. Tell your H that you are postponing. Let him know that you want to keep the door to reconciliation open and in that vein you are holding up any finalization of the D. Tell your H that the D isn't JUST your decision but his as well since it's about YOUR (his and your's) marriage.
He keeps passing off the decision on you so that he can stand back and say, "This is what YOU wanted." Well, his silence and removal from the 'process' is his conceeding to it without having to participate. T2
